I figured out something today. If a raid is going badly, QQing will have 0 chance of improving the situation and 100% of worsening it. I was surprised at just how **obvious** that seems once put in words, and yet so many people do it.

So, when we have a full guild run complain as much as you want in raid chat. But when we are pugging a lot of people and things are not going well, keep the FFS and such out of raid chat. If you need to get something off your chest whisper me, but don't air your dirty laundry in raid chat.